Say goodbye to your old WordPress theme!

Flexibility is here and you can get finally get CREATIVE with your blog!

To help you customize your blog, we have created a ton of graphics that can easily be used in your new theme. Go to FlexibilityTheme.com and browse through our headers, backgrounds, RSS icons, search boxes and more.

Anti-gay marriage proponents may have a lot to say against the legalization of same-sex marriages but their arguments may not be able to hold a candle to pro-gay marriage’s rational, albeit sardonic statements if put under scrutiny. Here’s a greatest hits collection of arguments against gay marriage and their respective rejoinders.

  • Marriage is sacred.
      • It’s not wrong to treat marriage as sacred. But the government shouldn’t be obligated to pass legislation that appears to be consistent with a church’s interpretation of God’s will. Separation of the state and church, please.
  • Homosexual relations are not normal nor natural.
      • They say that heterosexual unions are the only natural relationships because those are what we see in nature. An Anglican Archbishop once said, “I cannot think of how a man in his senses would be having a sexual relationship with another man. Even in the world of animals — dogs, cows, lions — we don’t hear of such things.
      • Is that so? Do we see these animals entering into marriage contracts with one another? No? Then, that would make marriage itself unnatural, right? A trait that isn’t the norm among us humans doesn’t automatically make it unnatural. After all, humans are part of nature.

  • Marriage is for procreation.
      • In relation to the issue of being “unnatural,” people oppose gay marriages because of its inability to produce children, hence it’s “not natural.” Then maybe we should change marriage laws: only fertile couples are allowed to marry.
  • Gay Marriage will undermine marriage as an institution.
      • As if the rising divorce rate isn’t doing its part to undermine the institution of marriage. Oddly enough, those so-called defenders of marriage who are opposing gay marriages are not even trying to campaign to ban divorces.
 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , ,

Leave your comment

Many believe the sentimental idea that a couple, whether gay or straight, will be happier in their relationship when they get married. To some, this is just an advertising ploy that benefits the multi-billion dollar wedding industry. Still, the struggle for the legalization of gay marriages continues. However, it would come as a surprise that some people from the gay and lesbian community do not share the same sentiments as those who favor same-sex marriages. Hmm… gays against gay marriage? Why? Well, here are a couple of their arguments:

  • Several surveys have shown that almost 50% of marriages end in divorce. While these surveys do not invalidate the sanctity of marriage, it clearly shows that many heterosexual couples appears to have little regard for marriage (which is kind of ironic, since apparently, a possible number of those straight people who don’t want gays to get married could be having marital problems of their own, which may include infidelity. But that’s a topic for another day.).

(Our two cents: Marriages may not be perfect, but when it comes right down to it, humans in general aren’t flawless in the first place.)

  • Socio-economic benefits of marriage such as tax breaks, health care, loans and credits guarantee, etc. are concerns that may be supported and amended even outside the issue of marriage. Besides, these benefits are already being granted to couples who are in a domestic partnerships in many states.

Well, in light of these arguments, is the fight for legally-recognized gay marriages worth it?



 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , ,

Leave your comment

65% Commission For $21.60/sale. Superb Practical & Technical Resource With 3 Ebooks + 3 Bonuses In The Information System. Promotional Tools For Affiliates: Graphics,image Ads,text Links. Access At www.fresh-water-aquariums-guide.com/affiliate-prog ram/. Freshwater Aquarium Care Information System.

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , ,

Leave your comment

Search FT.com

Search FT.com Greece will ask its eurozone partners to activate a €30bn rescue package following a week of intense pressure on financial markets, the country’s prime minister said on Friday. Read more on Financial Times

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: ,

Leave your comment

Six Sidley Partners Recognized by Law360 as Rising Stars NEW YORK—-Sidley Austin LLP have been recognized as Rising Stars Under 40 by Law360 in their respective areas of practice. The lawyers are Chris Abbinante , Theodore Chandler , Sharon Flanagan , Robert Hochman , Sean Keyvan and Roger Martella . Read more on Business Wire via Yahoo! Finance

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , , ,

Leave your comment

Information And Instructions For Digital Camera Slide Copier Devices. Slide Copiers Allow You To Transfer Your Old Photographic Slides And Film Into Digital Format. This Document Has Been Refined For Over 8 Years By A Company That Sells These Copiers. Digital Slide Copier Instructions And Information Document.

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , , ,

Leave your comment

E-Book Shows Victims Of Domestic Violence How To Deal Safely Yet Effectively With Abusers. They Will Learn How To Get Critical Information And Make Firm Decisions. They Will Empower Themselves, Take Charge Of Their Lives, Then Walk Away And Stay Away. Get Help For Domestic Violence.

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , ,

Leave your comment

Copyright (c) 2008 Dr Jeanne King PhD

Migraines, irritable bowel syndrome, essential hypertension, chronic pain, insomnia, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, excessive fatigue are just a few of the ongoing complaints of domestic violence survivors. And it’s not surprising.

These conditions are ALL mediated by the sympathetic nervous systema system perpetually “on” for individuals whose lives are entangled in domestic abuse.

Stemming back to our caveman ancestors, we inherited a physiology that is built to protect us from the perceived threat of impending danger. And when present, sympathetic arousal occurs.

For example, when the caveman saw a tiger, the thought “tiger” registered, activating a limbic system response of FEAR…ultimately, resulting in an adrenergic response that prepares the body for “fight or flight.” And with this, of course, mobilizing the proper body systems to deal with the circumstances at hand.

The Good: Our Survival Mechanism

Here’s what happens: blood rushes to the core of the body and away from the periphery, fueling the core organs, (heart and lungs) for this magnificent maneuver. Blood is quickly pumped into the large muscle groups to enable your rapid exit or fierce fight.

With this, many other physiological changes occur. You’re getting the picture, correct? In a nutshell…

1) Your cardiovascular system is aroused: increased heart rate, rise in blood pressure.

2) Your neuromuscular system is activated: increased muscle tension, and

3) Your gastrointestinal system shuts off: dry mouth, build up of acidity in the gut, bowel and bladder relax.

This is sympathetic arousal; that is the activation of the sympathetic nervous system. It is our body’s response to impending danger. It’s your survival mechanism, your natural stress response. This is good.

The Bad: Failure to Cycle Down

However, here’s where it’s not good. In the same way that our bodies are built to trigger this response, so are we built to cycle down when the impeding danger or perceived threat passes. And since our physiological systems don’t know the difference between real and perceived threat, we have the ability to keep this stress response “on” such that complete cycling down fails to occur.

Then when the next tiger comes our way, naturally we are appropriately aroused. But this time the excitation starts from an already elevated point of arousal, thereby resulting in a higher-level stress response.

Now for a moment, let’s envision our creating a habit, if you will, of not fully cycling down between each perceived threat; that is, between each tiger crossing our path. What happens?

Your body systems, associated with the stress response, remain “on” and at higher and higher levels of arousal over time with subsequent activation. This is what we call “chronic stress.”

The Ugly: Stress-Related Illnesses

Here’s the danger. When you keep these organ systems functioning as such, eventually they show symptoms of excess activation. This is the basic etiology of stress-related illnesses: migraine headaches, muscle contraction headaches, irritable bowel syndrome, essential hypertension, insomnia, chronic anxiety…and the list goes on.

Further, you can expect chronic stress to exacerbate depression, anxiety, cognitive impairment and more. It is the one factor you can count on to aggravate emotional psychological distress.

Your know how it is when you are refreshed and calm: anxiety, depression and cognitive impairment are low. And when you’re excessively stressed, anxiety, depression and cognitive impairment are magnified many fold.

If you are a domestic violence survivor, seek to cultivate habits that turn “off” the stress response. This will off-set damage done by a pattern naturally inherent in a current or past life of constant criticism, unpredictable partner rage, and ongoing caution, trepidation and fear.

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

Leave your comment

Azure Dynamics Balance(TM) Hybrid Electric Sales Update Azure Dynamics Corporation’s channel distribution strategy entails partnering with premier body builders and Ford commercial truck dealerships across North America to help market its innovative, efficient and green technology to fleet operators. Read more on CNW Group via Yahoo! Finance

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Leave your comment

Leggett & Platt Posts First Quarter EPS of $.29 - Read more on PR Newswire via Yahoo! Finance

 Mail this post

Technorati Tags: , , , , ,

Leave your comment